You get a perfect life partner is something your effort or efficiency or luck or combination of all?

Some boast it is totally their effort and efficiency. Is it? If it is true why do some of them ends up in divorce. You could have used your efficiency and effort to make sure you would not end up in divorce.

Even if you are a genius, you will not be able to understand your partner thoroughly, before marriage or living together and even after marriage for that matter. Without thorough understanding how would you make a correct judgement? You make judgement to the best of your knowledge.

So, there exists the element called LUCK once again. Only lucky couple live together forever.

Without luck your effort and efficiency will bring no success. It is like two zeros without a number in front. Your effort and your efficiency are like two zeros without any value.

00=  value    0

100= value 100

Your LUCK is the number in front of your effort and efficiency.

If you were born intelligent , it is your luck. Nothing but luck.  If you are educated, then it is your luck plus your hard work and effort. Can an autistic child (except a particular minority)learn a lot? No. So, if you could learn , it is your luck. Of course, there is your hard work. No body can deny.

Only thing you do is hardwork/ effort.

If you were born in a developed country, it is your luck and your luck only. Those who were born in developing countries do not have a lot of resources, comfort, protection, etc that are there in developed countries.

Especially, the freedom is lacking in so many developing countries. We must be grateful to GOD for us to have so much freedom in these developed countries. Freedom is priceless. Those who enjoy freedom since birth, may not realise how blessed they are, to have such freedom.

I moved from a developing country and living in a wonderful North American country. I can feel how much important freedom is. I now do have freedom that I could not have in the country I was born.

So, born in a developed country is your luck and there was nothing you did to be so.

If your were born without any disability, it is nothing but your luck.  Even if you have some disability, still you are lucky to have the rest. There was nothing you did to be without disability.

Therefore, first of all we all must be happy that we are lucky enough to be who we are today. Always, compare yourself with someone less fortunate and then you will realise how lucky you are.

You were born to a good, caring, rich parents is not something you did for yourself. It is purely your luck. Born in a rich family, you get good education and support for your future. Whatever you do after those blessings, are simply the walls built on the blessed foundation.

I do not say there is nothing you do or did. All I am saying is that there is somethings called Luck in your life in addition to your endeavours.

The example I gave in my last post may look odd. But, it is the simple reality. I personally tried to explain many people the same fact, with some descent examples and none agreed with the simple fact. Only after I gave that simple example, many could understand the simple reality.

From the odd example, once you realise the simple truth, you will be able to link the truth to so many other matters happen in your life.

Can you decide and control the time and venue for answering for your call of nature? No, you can not. Everyone wants to answer for the call of nature number 2 before leaving for school, work, meeting etc. Are you always succesful in doing so. NO.


After all,  when you can not decide and control the time and venue to get rid of something you do not want, how do you think you can control things that you want to achieve or gain.

Let me cite a simple example. Can you decide how tall you are? how long! you are?

If you are longer than average, you might be happy. Question is did you do anything to become longer?  Are you not Lucky? Of course, you are lucky to be born with longer one.

Like this there are so many things you are blessed with and that is your luck.

Only a few lucky people admit they are lucky and that is why they are successful. Some realises the fact but will not admit it. Some even do not realise and claim that every they do is their effort and efficiency.

Also, they call the unlucky ones "losers". If the unlucky one talkes about luck, the lucky one says      " loser's justification".

Luck is the most powerful thing a man can have. Some are born lucky and some become lucky during the course of the life. Important point to note here is that no one has a choice to choose to become lucky. It is a gift by nature be it  GOD or else.

Some think they are successful because they are effecient and hardworking. Will efficiency and hardworking alone make you succesful?